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annorexia isnt all that bad… most people think only girls do it.. im a guy.. and this site isnt pro-annorexia.. it just sucks… just give some tips..
Are you serious ? You’re seriously promoting to be “anorexic” ?
Thats the most craziest and suicidal thing i have ever heard of in my life !
I deffenetly agree with Brie above me, this is insane ! You people are crazy to put up an actual website of positive annoerexia ? Whats next ? how to kill yourself, in a good way ?!
HAHAHAHHAHHAHAA
Hi Daniella
Whats your problem? Why you so bothering anorexic . People can`t die because of being anorexic. You just dont know much about this so keep away and do not neg thinking to anorexia!!
There is nothing wrong with anorexia. It’s the one thing that people can’t contro, only you!!!! People that are neg about it just don’t know what they are talking about and that is called ignorance!
I think you’ll find that people can die from being anorexic – if you have an extremely low BMI and are starving yourself, chances are your body won’t be able to cope. You could suffer from organ failure, cardiac arrest…
Also your ‘beautiful body’ will start to shed hair, your nails will be weakened, your breath will stink…Not so attractive.
Your body needs food to survive, and also to be beautiful and healthy.
Hello
I’m a teen boy and a medic hopeful, and i would like to tell you that anorexia causes around 20 deaths in the Uk a day, i know it is a mid set and i understand how difficult it is to ware off it. It is caused by OCD i.e. i must look like that i must be like that. the idea is not to start, this is a road with no turning back. lack of food = less “fat” yes, but you need fat that is point one, otherwise your skin would fall part. i.e.dermatological cell membrane would fall apart. More severe, no food means no glucose= no energy= lack of muscle movement= organ failure= death. or lack of nutrients and vitamins means you will turn pale, skin will fall part, gums will decay and disease as a result of scurvy etc. as well as that it is not attractive, models are too thin they are not attractive if thats why many people do it.
Be healthy live a long life, do it for your family and friends, not for commercialism
If you want help or advice on anything contact me.. glad to help
MaskedJustice@hotmail.co.uk
to brie?
you clearly dont understand
why people whould do it..
no-ones going to change
theyll try and loose weight
without the help of websites
no-ones ‘promoting’ it why dont
you just leave off.
were the ones who have been called
and felt fat our whole lives.
felt ill and sickend by the image.
and then people say shit when they
try to change it
how is anyone supposed to win?
I really DONT care if i die from anorexia,
because how I see it.
a few months of happiness being the
size you want to be is worth more
than all the long fat miserable lives
you could ever imagine.
atleast then the peoples who called
me fat wouldnt.
by the way im 14.
The only two girls I’ve dated both struggled with Anorexia – the first was full blown, all out anorexic and it eventually led to her collapse at a gym and concussion. If you were to speak with her today, she’d tell you it’s not worth it. The problem isn’t your body, it’s your self image – no matter how thin you get, you’ll never be satisfied.
The second girl, I watched on a slow descent – let me tell you, this is painful for all who are close. Especially, me, as her boyfriend – she’d start to get irritated at affection and simply couldn’t handle being told she was pretty. She’d tell me she was fat, and if I argued – man, the week-long fight that ensued would not be fun at all.
Anorexia definitely takes you places you don’t want to go . . .
I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve battled with similar conditions, and it’s a long fight – but believe you me, it’s worth it in the end.
anorexia is caused by a form of OCD called body dismorphic disorder. the problem is not your body it is your mind. go to a porn site and you can find grannies and fat women but never anorexic girls. wonder why?
anorexia makes me feel better as i feel prettier because i dont eat and i am thinner i would hate to be big and fat that why i like it
i think that its not safe..
im skinny and i dont starve myself..
im constanly eating and i dont throw it up..
im heathly and happy..
i just exersise 3times a week
I am 20 years old and have had eating issues since I was 14. Let me tell you, anorexia is no joke. It messes up your brain, makes your hair fall out, your gums bleed, gives you depression, makes you grow fur, causes you to attempt suicide, lands you in the hospital, loony bin, nutritionists offices, psychiatrist offices, and everything else. It will put your life on hold, and there is so much more to life than starving and puking. I know how some of you above feel when it comes to absolutly loathing your body, and the only time you feel beautiful is when you are nearly dead with starvation.
Yes ladies (and gentlemen) I am anorexic, but not proud of it. Even if you do survive, you are never the same, and part of you will always be dead. Please please please be careful and dont go there. Anorexia/Bulimia is a very lonely place. find help of people
you trust and make it a goal to be healthy, not thin.
being anorexic is not worth it! im anorexic and recently reached out for help, and alls it got me was other people controlling my life and i dont even have a say in my life anymore! its so wrong to WANT to be anorexic, it messes up your life, and hurts the people you love so much! if you want to lose weight, do it the healthy way with the right foods and exercise. and you say to yourself that ull stop once you reach your goal weight, but once your anorexic, its not that simple to just stop.
i am 49 and had eating disorders since a small child. bulimia, anorexia and compulsive eating. all of my life i have been told i am no good, that i do things wrong but this is one thing i can do right.
i don´t care if i live or die. if i die it will be because i chose to. no one will miss me anyway. sometimes i think to die will be a blessing then i won´t have to think or look at myself.
people should leave us alone. we are not hurting anyone. it is our choice. i just want to be left alone to live my life the way i want to
im a boy and i have anorexia and even typing that was painful.
and sorry guys but im a ‘true’ anorexic. i dont care about being ‘beautiful’. I coudlnt give a shit about that bullshit, for most anorexics, thats not what its about, its ALL about control.
so when people say ‘yeah i do it because i wana be thin’ i get so fucking pissed off because its not about that at all. its not about vanity, its all about control and only control.
you make anorexic people like vain idiots when its actually a real illness and it makes me upset to think people arent taking it seriously when so many people have died over tis illness
hay im anorexic and if u no it all do wa i or ova peepz like us do den ull no wa anorexia means cuz u dunno wa it feels like to be like us and it is an illness and u may think dull to do dis but sum of us do it for ova reason so dun think its insane ok
I definately agree with
paul
katya
xrx
MaskedJustice.
As a young woman I want to eat normally whenever I feel hunger, eat healthy food, but also not to preclude tasty foods from my diet.
I dont want to be preoccupied with calories, neither do I want to eat because I cannot bear my feelings
I dont want to feel regret, guilt, remorse because of eating
I dont want to suffer.
I dont want to have my mind fixated with calories.
I want to love and be loved in return.
I want to be deeply appreciated, respected, and loved regardless of my weight.
it took me many years to come to these conclusions because of the relationship with my mother who was messing up my mind about food, calories, and body image.She was never satisfied with my body, nor was she satisfied with hers.
different people have different reasons for creating an unhealthy relationship with food.
anorexia and bulimia are serious illness
and something else
if you are unhappy and you believe that by losing weight you will become happy, you will find yourself loosing weight but still being unsatisfied, unhappy, so….. the reasons for unhappiness must be other than weight search for this reasons before anything else
if you feel that you control yourlife through starvation,,
then you are fighting your own self,
because controlling yourself might be easier rather than controlling other things in your life that are painful for you and you feel that you cannot control
you might have your own reasons
but reflect on them …
appreciate your self and respect your body.
I send my best wishes for recovery for those who suffer
I want help. I have been Bulimic/Anorexic ever since I was a sophomore in Highschool and I am 20 years old now. Everyone close to me that means anything to me knows about it too. I dont think they know what they need to do about it. Can I do something for myself? I want to just be happy and get better and actually believe someone when they say I’m beautiful. I feel like I’m stuck within myself and I have noticed that I am OCD sometimes with like my radio in my car for example…I always have to have it on an even number. So much that anyone who rides with me always put it on an even number. I am constantly fixing things and straightening them to my liking and avoiding stepping on cracks in streets or sidewalks…what Ive gotten from this website is that it has something to do with OCD. I came here to look for a way to stop my hunger therefore stopping the binge and purges but I really just want help so I can get happy again. I dont know what to do and Ive losssed all energy to care at times. I am lonely and sad all the time and I dont know what I can do to fix it. I have heard that there is a small % chance of being better after you have been sent to a place where they watch what you eat and try to make you better. So Idk, I feel sad and hopeless and I just want to be by myself, away from everyone and life… alone with my eating disorder.
Help! I have to go to the doctor and i don’t know what to do to hide my condition. Any tips? I can’t get out of it but have no idea what to do. please help.
To all those who have anorexia:
please, i’m begging you to get help. I realize that for some it may be about getting thin, but for others its all about control like paul said.
there are so many things out there that you could be doing that could give you the control you need. volunteering, having a hobby, etc. for those that want to be thin, i know that you’ve been told that being thin is beautiful, but being beautiful while being healthy is much more appreciated. If you are overweight, consult a doctor. I’m sure that they could give you some sort of a meal plan to help you.
The body you’re born with is the one that’s most beautiful.
I know that anorexia starts in the mind and that it is something that you can’t always control. but getting help is an answer. So please, at least consider it.
-Ethanajama ?
hi, im new to all this.
im really skinny but i am not anorexic n believe me i dnt enjoy bein skinny. i hate it sooo much. i just wish i could b curvey. i just wanna say dat i dnt understand y young gals wanna b anorexic and i am totally against all these pro anoreic sites n they should b banned. its crazy n stupid. n yes anorexic can kill u n be a danger 2 ur health. i mean, gals r born to b curvey and sexy. they should b proud of there bodies n shouldnt harm dem selves by wanting to b anorexic. anorexic is not a good thing and its no sumfin people should be proud off.
hi im a 13 yr old and i am currently a size 8-10
i hate the fact i am this fat and i really need 2 loose weight
can any1 offer me usefull tips
i already only eat 1 meal aday and i used 2 be a size 12
but im still way to fat.
please can sum1 help
Hey…
I’m not overly fat, but i’m not skinny.
I don’t want to be anorexic, i just want to have a toned body but with work and everything i don’t have the time to go anywhere and I hate doing things alone but none of my friends will do anything with me, any tips on how to stay at a slim size or anything that will help me?
Om my god, please dont anybody actually believe this shit it isnt true im 17 and when i was 15 i used to feed off all this crap and trust me weight isnt the same thing as beauty. Anarexia isnt a way you look….its a disease and it can kill you ive watched it nearly take some of my friends and it isnt pretty. You get hair on your body because there isnt enough meat to keep you warm, it hurts to do things, you have no energy, some people even need cushions on their toliet seat because its excrusiating agony to sit on a hard surface, if you want to loose weight far enough diet and excersise but do not follow this lifestyle, it will take over your whole life and destroy it and im not over exadurating, and its a waste of time….boys dont like it
i’m 17 years old and i’m obese.
i weigh 250 pounds and i’m 5 foot 6. for my height i should be between 86-122 pounds.
i have a skin disease so i can’t go out in the sun to exercise.
i come from a poor family so i can’t buy the things i need to work out at home.
i’m turning to anorexia because if i don’t loose this weight…i’ll die. seriously.
i know you can also die from anorexia, but it’s the only option i have.
can someone help me?
(don’t tell me about how anorexia is bad. i already know all that stuff. just give me tips to commit to anorexia.)
Though I genuinely feel bad for anorexics who get so bad that they die….I have to say there are infinitely more people who die EVERYDAY from obesity. Granted, maybe not obese kids so much…but obese adults have heart attacks all the time. And there’s so much pain living as a fat person than there is living as a super thin person. Thin people are considered smarter and more in control of themselves than fat people…and let’s face it, super skinny people look great in clothes. There’s nothing a fat person can do to look good no matter what.
I wonder you guys want to be anorexic..that a sickness!
I didnt know what they`re thinking about anorexia but opposite in me I want to be fat because my weight is not good enough for my high..I`m skinny, please tell me how to fat besides eat much more and exercises.
I’m not going to bash all the neg anorexics on this site because unless you have the thoughts of an anorexic you won’t truely understand wot its like to look in the mirror and see a fat person staring back at you, it shatters your feelings and self confidence so badly. I just feel this is a pro anorexia site so people don’t come onto this site for negative comments..
Im 20 years old, im a gay guy and have massive body issues, and anorexia helps, people have their own way of coping, self harm is another one that helps too. I can;t stress enough that if you dont see what an anorexic person see’s then you really can’e judge.
im 15 and i have an eating disorder. does anyone else have one? i just want someone to talk to who knows what im going through.
“…but for young adolescent who wishing a sexy body like a model, anorexia is one of method for getting beautiful body and they are still looking for anorexia tips.”
And you’re what’s wrong with society. You’re the people who are brainwashing the masses into thinking that looking like Jack Skellington is sexy and desirable, when in reality, there are more chubby chasing guys than there are bone diggers (a term I made up to describe a guy who likes really skinny women, which is quite rare since guys like girls with existing boobs and thighs). There is nothing wrong with large women (mind you, I’m not exactly talking about obese people) because you can still have curves that can be quite attractive when you are wearing the right ensemble. Curves are sexy; protuding bone apendiges aren’t.
And to the comment above me, I understand that in most cases, anorexia is a pyschological thing, and that some people can’t help it. But starving yourself isn’t going to make anything better: you need fucking consoling!
you guys have issues. i mean, nothing wrong with you, just… talk to some one. some of you have control issues, body issues, etc., just… see a doctor. in the nicest way possible.
I am anorexic myself, and i totally agree with people like Brie. You cannot promote anorexia as a lifestyle. It is a dangerous disease and you people that think its a positive thing, obviously haven’t suffered with it. because trust me, its not a nice thing to go through, and you would never want anyone to go through the same thing.
Anorexia is not a joke. I had it from the age 13 to 22, in and out of hospital. I know the pros and cons, so why at 28 has it all started again!!!!
I’m glad to see there are several intelligent responses here, some not so much. Or rather I’d call them niaeve. Anorexia will destroy almost every aspect of a person slowly. And as for the comment ‘it can’t kill you’, well actually it can. As with bulima your bodys potassium and magnesium levels drop, these are involved in muscle contraction and the heart function. Your heart could stop. if you experience symptoms such as cramping in feet or becoming lightheaded when you stand ‘hypotension’ and suffer from an eating disorder, in all likeliehood your potassium is dangerously low. Anorexia impairs your executive functioning; i.e. problem solving, descion making, concentration. Very quickly you begin lacking calcium, leading to osteopenia then more chronic osteoperosis. You periods will cease, estrogen is involved in the production and absorption of calcium. You may begin losing scalp hair, and hair may appear in females on chin, upper lip area (hirtuism) as the androgen levels become too high.
I’m a 28 yr old female currently battling to recover anorexia. I’m also a psychology graduate. I hope anyone considering tips for assisting anorexia will read this and think twice. I have researched anorexic effects in some depth. I currently have osteopenia as a result of anorexia and am trying to prevent it developing to osteoperosis. These conditions make your bones brittle and break easily. I have been in recovery stage for 7 months now and consistenly ill as my immune has be battered by the disease. I’ve suffered with insomnia and depression (both features of anorexia). My teeth are in bad shape. I went as low as 32kg and my heart was beating so slow it was a waiting game for it to stop.
Do not kid yourself at the serious of this illness, I could go on and on at various other ways in which it can effect you and has effected me. This disease does eventually lead to death. Please seek help and do not follow the dangerous, inaccurate advice of insane sites such as this.
After reading all of the above posts, I am quite disturbed. My only sister has been anorexic, bulemic, hooked on laxatives and so on, for more than 20 years now and it has done nothing but destroy the whole family and slowly is killing her…one thing leads to another. At the age of 21 she weighed only 89 lbs. at 5′9″ and almost died. At the age of 26 she underwent a brain tumor operation (there was a chance she would be a veg. afterwards) and in between were numerous bladder ops, awful bowel problems, skin breakouts, herpes (caused by a low immunity), and so so many other things it is hard to re-count. Recently, she has been having irregular heart rythm, (at 37) twisted bowel, cold all the time, bi-polar like mood swings, memory loss and so much more. She takes numerous medications daily for all her problems….anxiety, OCD, all the above mentioned med. issues and more. Yet, through it all, still orders a salad without dressing and dissapears shortly after…at 37! When will people seek help? When it is too late? When you’re really dying? I was shocked to hear there were these kinds of pro-anorexia web sites out there and think they are a cry for help. Our health is all we have, please, i beg any of you with this disease,accept that you have it and at least TRY to get help. There are so many people out there who love you and would jump at the opportunity to help you. I know I would. It will destroy your family, your health, your life and eventually kill you. Why not get help….what could THAT hurt?
Anorexia is not glamourous. I’m 13 and have had anorexia since I was about 9. It’s something you can’t control. You believe in the start that eating is all you can control in your life. But then it spirals out of control. Anorexia is not worth it !
im a sophmore in high school and have always been thin but i started to put on weigh as a freshman. i stopped eating. i found it almost liberating to take control of something in my life. however this is ruining my life. i weigh 95 lbs and want to weigh 80 and thats why i have this illness. im anorexic because by taking control i lost control.
are you people fucking mad or something… people die because of anorexia and you’re promoting in! Secondly, the sexy girls on magazine covers are not anorexic… Click on this link and youll see someone who is anorexic. Anorexia is a mental illness…
http://webpages.scu.edu/ftp/CJaeckels/images/anorexic.jpg
WOW! really, people? a pro- anorexia site? come on. you wanna be beautiful? keep your boobs! keep your curves! keep all the things that make you pretty. guys dont want ugly, pale, washed out skinny girls, with dry, cracked, rough skin form no nourishment. They dont want ribby chests and bones all stickin out! they want ta-tas and hips that sway, and curves that feel soft and feminine to the touch. Eat, guys! excersize! get help! its a disease, really. and bulimics, all that throwing up will scar your intestines, rot your teeth, and cause really terrible breath from all the acid. PLUS, THERES THE DEATH FACTOR!!! and anorexics, if you think that you are getting more beautiful, go get any poster that a typical guy would have in his room. what do you see? curvy chests, sexy hips, and toned bodies, not thin ones. Boobs=good. Ribs=bad. and guys like butts, too! good old fashioned curvy butts. so, take a step back from the mirror, realize that you are SICK SICK SICK SICK, and go get help. you’ll feel sooooo much better. marraige? kids? happiness? a family? how are you supposed to handle all that when you cant even handle how to see yourself clearly? huh? Really. im a girl, a junior in high school, with average height, average weight. and im happy! i love my boobs, i love my hips, i love my bum, and so do all the guys! LOL. so, PLEASE GET HELP!!! i stumbled upon this horrid site when i was do a very very extensive research paper, and im shocked. this shouldnt even exist. And for all those coming to this site, hoping to find other people comfortable with starving themselves, i hope that you read this. i really do.
hey. i wanna lose some weight quickly as i really hate how fat i am.
i’ve been throwing up for the past few months but i still hate the way i look. any tips?
thanks x
i thinkk that if i want to loose weight and not eat i will
no one can make you eat
ive hated the way i look 4 a long tyme an di want to do summit about it without adults and doctors annoying me,
they are trying to help but i dont want it
i want to be thin like posh spice x
help, i need to loose weight.
i am 60kg and i hate it.
ow do i commit to loosing 10kgs?
.im a 29 yr old counsellor.secializing in eating disorders.Having suffered with the cruel illness my self and nearly died.5 months on a life support machine!i understand the minds temptress,anorexia.u need not suffer alone.i can assist.
Haha, I’m loving all the people that are posting “lol help me 2 b anorexic plz I want 2 be skinny.”
Dumbshits. Anorexia is a disease, it’s something you can’t help. You can’t “commit to being anorexic.” It’s not like you’re going on a diet or something.
Anyways, I used to be extremely overweight, and I’m now at a healthy 130 lb (5′8″ female) and really happy with myself. I had three rules for myself:
1. No fried foods or soda
2. No food after 8pm (metabolism thing)
3. Cardio at least three times a week.
Some people think thin is beautiful and some people thing fat is beautiful and either way that’s not really the issue here.
Anorexics have a distorted body image and can even develop a phobia of eating.
If think you are either too heavy or too thin, seek help. There’s always some compromise between how you want to look and what you have to do to be healthy.
I am so sorry for all you people out there who are suffering or who have suffered. In the long run, anorexia is a mental disorder and a lot of people tend to forget that. I would like to give you a siblings perspective of anorexia. My sister had anorexia, and not only did it turn her life upside down- it turned my life upside down too, and the rest of my family aswell. At the time, she was ignorant of this, and I can’t blame her. She was slowly killing herself. She would say ‘Why do you care? You’re not suffering’. But I was. I had to watch my sister hurt herself all day every day and there wasn’t a thing I or my family could do to stop her. If I could describe Anorexia, I would describe it as a living hell. It was almost as if somebody else had taking over her body, her life and our lives too. I decided to write this for the people who would just like to be thin and are envious of people with anorexia. This is also for anorexic people. I thought it could maybe give certain individuals the push to get help as its not only them who are suffering: It’s your friends and family too. Anorexia is not a joke. It is horrific and disturbing. I can only hope that this message might help somebody out there. And please, if you are on this site purely because you want to be anorexic, I can tell you now, you will never regret anything more in your life if you develope this disorder. I am only 17, and I have had to watch my sister suffer so badly. And I can honestly say, I will forever be scarred and she does not even know it. Don’t put your family through it and please don’t put yourself through it. It is dark and lonely and it is most deffinatly not worth it. Ask any individual who is truly suffering with Anorexia Nervosa.
Yeah, well, I used to be anorexia but was made to go into hospital. I used to eat hardly anything before I was FORCED to go into hospital and I used to exercise all day at the expense of everything else. BUT I weighed 5 stone at 5′7. Now they made me eat loads I can’t help myself and hate myself more than I have in my whole life and probably weigh triple what I weighed. It ruled my life, true, but I was thin and I’d go back to it in a second were I given the chance. Now, my life is dictated by self loathing, depression and throwing up the disgusting stuff I can’t stop myself eating anymore. I would rather have died when I was thin than become the disgusting fat being I am now. So don’t interfere with other people’s lives, let them live it the way they wish because u’ll end up doing far more harm than good-there’s such a thing as free will!
So I haven’t read ALL of these comments, but I am anorexic (it started because of anxiety around exams that was so bad I couldn’t keep food down so I started eating less and less), and I just want to say its ridiculous to pretend that anorexia isn’t negative, but I think the point in these sites is to give people tips on how to live with anorexia, so that it doesn’t have to lead to hospitalization.
Just like anything thats unhealthy, people can very easily go too far and end up seriously hurting themselves. I know girls who have ruined years of their lives because it got to the point where they were frequently fainting, started losing hair, etc. and ultimately couldn’t function. But anorexia can also be manageable.
I would never promote anorexia to anyone. If I had a friend who wanted to lose weight, I wouldn’t say “do what I did and stop eating”, because to me this was not a diet or even a choice I made in order to lose weight, it was a habit I got into as a result of other issues. But people are going to be anorexic and coming on these pages and telling people they’re stupid is just pointless. An anorexic isn’t gonna go eat just because people criticize what they are doing. But if you notice someone is really suffering, there are tips you can give them to get them to at least eat enough to keep themselves going.
To the others who are suffering from anorexia, I hope that one day we all get better, because there is no denying the harmful physical and psychological effects. I know sometimes I hate myself for doing this, and I think its important to keep limits in mind for yourself (for example, I’m 5′1 and 93 lbs, I try to stay around 95 and wont let myself get to 90). I know people who have gotten over anorexia and gained tons of weight, but ultimately they find ways to be happy with themselves and are better off now-keeping that in mind helps me.
thanks guys, i was actually trying to find some tips to Help me loose s few pounds but after reading just a few comments ive realised that it is ludicrus! ill eat less crisps and a bit more fruit and ride my bike along the beach a bit more everyday; not starve, harm or deprive my body or life of what i deserve, some good old fashioned food with good friends who love even my wobbliest bit! think about it people. DONT DO IT! XXX
This is absolutely ridiculous. An eating disorder is an illness, you can’t just choose to have it. And helping people with anorexia with TIPS is the stupidest thing I have ever heard; you should be helping them try to recover!
I am bulimic, and it is hell. I know people with anorexia, and it is hell. I would not wish my illness on my worst enemy, so stop acting like it’s a new cool thing.
I’m over weight. And an ex boyfriend of mine was underweight. He never ate anything. He helped me to stop eating, and I am much happier, I’m not at my goal weight yet. But once I get there I can just maintain that weight. And I have 40lbs to go. Some days I eat a grape and drink milk, or some days I eat nothing. And I lose 3-10lbs a week. So, you just gotta do this right.
We all have problems! anorexia is better than bulimia, at least you are not waisting food. People kill for food, died of hunger!!!!! not because of anorexia but because of necesity.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting somewhere to talk about ur problems and EDs but to encourage other people, mainly very very impressionable young people to hurt themselves is utterly shameful. Anorexia is a mental illness and there is no shame in that but that is no excuse to actively egg people on to damage their bodies, you really should be ashamed of yourself and think about what the consequences of your actions are.
Hope everyone can stay healthy on here and be happy with who you are xx
So i went to the pet store…and i bought a fish. He’s a very pretty fish. His name is Malichai. He has a red body with blue fins and he likes to swim. One day, while he was swimming, he looked at me with a vile hatred that i had never seen before…and his little fish eyebrows shook with frustration. and i said…”FISH!!! WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU LOOKIN’ AT!?” and suddenly his anger dissipated and he went on swimming like he had been before. I cannot describe the hardships i have faced while owning a fish, but i am sure someone on this website will understand my pain. Soon after our strange encounter…i decided to stop feeding him. i guess that makes him anorexic too…
OK ..GUYS I REALLY NEED HELP FROM YOU CUZ I’M A 18 YEARS GURL AND I HAVE 68 KG..IM DESPERATE TO LOSE WEIGHT ..I WATCH IN THE MIRROR AND ALL I SEE IS A DISGUSTING BODY,THAT I CANT BELIVE IS MINE, I AM SAD AND CRYING AND REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO HELP ME..PLEASE WRITE ME BACK:(
My girl friend is a Christian who loves people. I met her when I was going through my cancer scare. So I will always love her. Because she loved me. Even when I was finding difficult at work, she loved me. I have done and will do anything for her, because she gave me something to run for.
I met her with baggage but in life who doesn’t. I told her all of my faults and flaws and she loved me unconditionally.
She recently developed an ED stemming from unresolved issues in the past.
Some of the issues were:
Not being listened to at school
Being overweight in the early stages of her life
Mother and family not allowing her to make mistakes
Being compare to high flying family members
Peers getting married ……………….
Recently she had trouble at her last job where she didn’t know how to deal with rejection from work college, a long distance relationship etc.
I love my girl friend so much, and have been dating for the past 2 years with the hope of getting married soon. If I had the money I would have married her earlier.
I didn’t see the signs of her struggling because she was on tour with her job. I just want every man out there to listen and pay attention when your lady speaks, even if you don’t understand.
Just listen. She has the ability to fix things for herself but you need to love her, support her, and listen.
The mother is very controlling and I felt like a complete failure when I came out of the cancer scare, and could deal with work stress, but she loved me.
When I was getting bullied and harassed at work my girlfriend supported me. I always gave her the best of what I had, because she gave me God and hope in dark situations.
But things just got difficult because she felt that her family was not supporting her, and she felt at times like an outsider looking in, because of her points of view wasn’t her. I thought I was supporting her by giving her solutions when she just wanted me to listen.
I know that I could have made more of an effort to get to know her family but my family just isn’t like that.
When she was on tour I would travel the world to see her and would make myself available whenever she needed me. Even when she would travel back late at night to her hotel room I would be on the end of a phone.
Our main arguments were not being able to see each her more often and why are you not going to church.
It’s difficult when you get into a relationship with someone and people keep on trying to control your lives especially when you old enough to buy a house.
Parents you need to understand one size doesn’t fit all when dealing with you children. Some are strong and some are emotional. Some need love and some just want acceptance.
Boyfriends listen out for the silent cry for help from your lady. If she starts tell you that she finding it difficult doesn’t try and fix it. Just listen and let her fell that she in control of her own life. Be strong and find help for her. Learn about EDs not just for her but for everybody. This problem is a lot bigger and affects so many people. Please if you care about life do something today, don’t wait until it too late.
We all want to be in control in a world where everything we do is outside of our control.
Example:
People’s perception of self
How you view self
What defines you?
Relationships
Love/loss
Pain/anguish
Hurt………..
I am current battling to understand what EDs’ are so that I can help my girlfriend. I need to know because it affects every one whether we want to believe it or not. Think about it.
As long as you watch TV our views of self are reflections of what you think, see and hear.
If you don’t have the support network around you, then you will find it in food, drug and sex.
That why food and drugs are always listed together on the government adgender because they know it is profitable, addictive and can be used to control people.
My girlfriend has loss a lot of weight and it broke my heart after not seeing her for 2 months. She said, “Have I lost weight”.
I said, ” Yes and I love you because you loved me”.
It’s like she was in control and then the avalanche effect to over. Weight just seems to drop off.
Her mother worried like anything, I’m scared I might lose her. My family is praying daily for God to restore her back to health.
The last time I saw her she keep on talking about how much she would like to eat food, but she just can’t seem to eat it. She always kept on telling me how tired and faint she felt. After a mouth full of food she would feel really bloated. Its hard. Please don’t put people through this.
It’s hard for me. The last conversation we had was:
I hope your well xx
I mean it xx
Please guys/girls I know it’s hard to stop but your flirting with death every time you give in to that beast in your head. It starts to control you, and eventually you will lose control but it’s hard to stop because your body will have a learned behavior. Please I really love her and would give my life to see her right now.
I hate those dam TV shows, music industries and stupid people who promote self harm as being a thing of fashion.
I would love to see every day people on the TV. You know real people, not this force fed crap which we have been told it fashionable.
Any way she is away for 2week with limited contact to family, and her phone is with her aunty how I don’t get alone with.
I miss her but need to make sure I can support her because she is my best friend, lover, and soul mate.
If you want help call
Sufferer’s Helpline: 01934 710679
Parent Helpline: 01934 710645
http://www.anorexiabulimiacare.co.uk/
You still have a choice.
Signed Boy friend who loves you dearly
Please read
Please Please listen by a survivor
When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving me advice, you have not done what I asked.
When I ask you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn’t feel that way, you are trampling on my feelings.
When I ask you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, you have failed me, strange as that may seem.
Listen! All I ask is that you listen. Don’t talk or do – just hear me.
Advice is cheap; 20 cents will get you both Dear Abby and Billy Graham in the same newspaper, and I can do for myself; I am not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering, but not helpless.
When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and inadequacy. But when you accept as a simple fact that I feel what I feel, no matter how irrational, then I can stop trying to convince you and get about this business of understanding what’s behind this irrational feeling.
And when that’s clear, the answers are obvious and I don’t need advice. Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what’s behind them.
Perhaps that’s why prayer works, sometimes, for some people – because G*d is mute, and he doesn’t give advice or try to fix things. G*d just listens and lets you work it out for yourself.
So please listen, and just hear me.
And if you want to talk, wait a minute
for your turn – and I will listen to you.
by Author Unknown and adapted by A.E.S.T.
i am a bit conscious about the food calories i take coz i dont wanna get fat.”.
I DONT support anorexia, but i really think we should be more sympathetic to these people. They’ve been going through alot: Being called cruel names, depressed about their body image, and of people giving them harsh comments about their anorexia. We don’t understand these people most of the time.
Geez Louise, I just want some tips on how to get VERY VERY VERY VERY skinny…I DON’T want written lectures from strangers; mind your own business; go eat a cheese danish! How DARE DARE DARE you lecturers get on this thing and write these mile-long lectures! How D.A.R.E. you. You know NOTHING about each and every one of us, you pathetic armchair psychiatrists….Now….anyone have pro-ana advice for me? I want to shed some serious weight.
hmmmm im 14 years old goin into year 10 and so far i have had my first boyfriend & my first kiss
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infact i dont think boys look at me i that way at all.
ha i refuse to do pe because im scared of what people will say being and lookin the way i am OBESTE and my friends say i look fine and there is noting wrong with me but i think there is !x
im atleast a size 18 i WANT TO be anoreic dont give me none of your bullshit about how bad it is i dont care its my chocie and thats what i wonnna do SERIOUSLY if i get that bad i would wonna be admitted to hospital and be helped but for NOW you lot are my only hope:)
soo please can you give me step by step on how to get through the first week at leastt
my eating has been a complete roller-coaster ride for about two months now. i go from not eating for a couple of days, to eating regular-sized meals and purging afterwards.. i weigh myself at least four times a day and am just entirely compulsive and obsessed with my weight. it’s utterly disgusting. i cannot be normal about food.. if i eat more than one small meal a day i feel disgusting. i’m not underweight or anything.. i fluctuate between 105-110 and am about 5′3-5′4.. i don’t know why i’m on this stupid fucking site writing my goddamned business. i really want to tell somebody but don’t want to be a burden/seek attention.. i suppose this silly old vent is my release..
Ive been taking Phentermine.. It’s an appetite suppressant I found on the internet.. That coupled with Metabolic Conditioning and VERY long.. Ive lost 2 stone in a month and gone from a size 12 to a size 8.. And I dont feel shitty or tired
How can anyone get tips on “safe anorexia” when the people writing the articles don’t make any sense? “Anorexia is always famous as a negative way by every people.” Hello! These are not written by any educated people because they cannot put a coherent sentence together if they tried. Maybe they need to eat more food so their brains start functioning properly. Anorexia is a seriously condition and there is no “safe” way to do it.